Posted on December 10, 2019 by small20
Betty Nelson: Leaving a Legacy
by Anna Szolwinski
Betty Nelson knows how to go out in style. In 1995, Betty retired from Purdue with a celebration titled “Betty’s Blast-Off, Celebrating Dean Nelson’s Past, Present, and Future.” (1) Guests were invited to the social with invitations depicting ice cream cones and the words “Here’s the Scoop!” Betty’s “fan club members,” of which there were many, lined up to give their best wishes for the retiring Dean. For someone with as much spunk and spirit as Dean Nelson, there was no better way to appropriately celebrate her going away. Although Betty had blasted off into her retired life, her legacy had only just begun.
Betty wasted no time before diving into the Greater Lafayette community and expanding her outreach beyond Purdue. Angie Klink describes Betty in retirement as:
“Her head bent slightly forward, scurrying to the next volunteer meeting, community art shows, Purdue reception, Purdue retiree event, or alumni gathering…she [swirls] through a room of Purdue community members or civic friends, talking with each person, remembering tidbits of their lives, including personal triumphs and challenges. She [is] never afraid to speak to the heart of a matter with fearless candor softened with humor and her serene grace.” (2)
Although Betty’s extracurricular commitments seem to be endless, some of her current and past involvements include member of the University Libraries Dean’s Advisory Council, Lafayette Community Campaign Steering Committee, University Convocations Advisory Board, Purdue University Retirees Association, a board member and officer of the Community Foundation of Greater Lafayette, the first woman president of the Lafayette Rotary club, an active board member of the Lafayette YWCA, president of the Lafayette YWCA Foundation, officer of the Tippecanoe Chamber Music Society, and chair of the Lilly Endowment Community Scholars selection committee. In regard to her extensive list of involvements, Betty says, “People are really important to me. They inspire me.” As for curiosity, “It enriches life phenomenally. It causes me to see things and wonder.” (3)
As a result of her tireless dedication to enhancing the lives of those in the West Lafayette community, Betty has received numerous awards from those impacted by her efforts. At Purdue, she has been given honorary memberships in some of the most distinguished campus organizations including but not limited to Iron Key, Mortar Board, Old Masters, Alpha Lambda Delta, Reamer Club, and Omicron Delta Kappa. In 2014, she was awarded the Distinguished Lifetime Membership award from Mortar Board, which recognizes alumni who have demonstrated outstanding achievement in their professional lives, representing Mortar Board’s commitment to the ideals of scholarship, leadership, and service. When receiving the award, Betty humbly stated, “I think maybe I’ve gotten to the point in my life where I’m thinking this is more about modeling some behavior to get others excited about doing things with their students in their community.” (4) Additionally, Betty was awarded the Grand Marquis de Lafayette for her contributions to the community and leadership as a volunteer. Within Greater Lafayette, Betty significantly helped Indiana Business College, St. Elizabeth Medical Center, and the Greater Lafayette Community Foundation. Despite its length, this list of awards is nowhere near complete nor indicative of the influence Betty has had in making West Lafayette and Lafayette a more inclusive, kind-spirited community. Jane Hamblin, former associate dean of students and friend to Betty, eloquently describes Betty’s drive for equality. She writes that Betty is “a tireless advocate for equal opportunities and equal rights, [she] does not let a day go by without focusing a watchful eye on the gender, racial and ethnic make-up of corporate boards in her community; without failing to draw attention to the accessibility of a venue or event; or without doing the hard work of helping others navigate the hidden, but very real, barriers placed in their way by a slow-moving social structure.” (5)

Not only has Betty earned many well-deserved awards, but she has also had multiple accolades and honors created in her name. The Betty M. Nelson Special Recognition Award was created by the Purdue University Retirees Association to acknowledge those who have greatly improved the lives of retirees. Additionally, in 1996, the Mortar Board National Honor Society created the Dean Betty Nelson Service Award to honor one Purdue student affiliated with a student organization and one student organization, both of which excel in community service in the Lafayette-West Lafayette area. These students often go unrecognized due to their nature as “servants” to their fellow citizens. (7) Finally, the Betty M. Nelson Skilled Leader Award is given to a participant of the Emily Mauzy Vogel sophomore Leadership Conference who has contributed significantly to Purdue in the year following the conference. Not only do the latter two awards support students financially, but they enable Purdue students to be impacted and inspired by Betty’s legacy. Students can also be reminded of her time at Purdue while walking past the marker in Betty’s name, located near Knoy Hall. The $25,000 project was funded entirely with donations from Betty’s friends and from Mortar Board, exemplifying the number of students, faculty, and community members she touched during her time at Purdue. (8)
Betty’s voice remains widely respected on campus, and she never fails to ask questions or fight for what she knows to be just. With a pen and paper or a simple email message, Betty’s words send earthquakes rumbling through Purdue’s campus. Jane Hamblin captures Betty’s famous email habits perfectly and writes:
“When an email arrives at two o’clock in the morning, it’s probably from a credit card company, chain store, political campaign … OR it might also be from Betty M. Nelson…After a hectic day of community strategy meetings and events, Betty tackles her inbox in the wee hours. Her emails are sometimes forwards of newsy pieces from the local papers in Greater Lafayette, Ind., or from the Purdue News Service. Often, they are priceless gems of well-crafted writing that completely defy the strictures of “Inbox Zero.” (9)
One of the most notable events about which Betty made her voice heard occurred in 2018 after Purdue made public its plans to build a $2 million gateway at State and Grant Streets. Although grand in architecture and aesthetic appeal, the gateway required that an “underwhelming” marker dedicated to former Dean Beverly Stone be demolished. Stone spent 24 years of her life dedicated to improving the lives of Purdue students, and as a result, the Panhellenic Association spent five years fundraising to construct a marker in her honor. In response to the gateway development, Betty worked tirelessly as an advocate for her long-time friend and mentor. When asked about the construction, she replied: “I’m not sure I understand what the university is doing. I’m not sure the university understands what it is doing…Those students’ tribute to Dean Stone all those years ago is not what I’d call underwhelming.” (10) Although the marker dedicated to Stone was still removed, Betty was able to ensure that a bronze plaque in Stone’s name was included on the gateway. She remarked, “I’m just so student-oriented that it seems unconscionable to me to be ready to take down something that students created without any consultation with them…It doesn’t seem appropriate to me.” (11) In typical Betty fashion, her concern for students prevailed.

Beverly Stone, one of Betty’s closest friends, wrote to Betty in a letter, “I think you are the angel who has cared for me over the years – thank you, dear angel!” (13) Like Beverly, the residents of Greater Lafayette thank Betty for being the angel who has cared for their community over the years. With her quick-wit and graceful strength, Betty captivates the hearts of those she meets and continues to share her nuggets of wisdom with those lucky enough to be privileged with her presence. In one of her distinctive emails, Betty wrote, “Love focusing on the future but also think it is valuable to take advantage of what has been learned in the past.” (14) Each day, generations of Boilermakers and Greater Lafayette community members have the opportunity to learn from Betty’s legacy of female empowerment, student advocacy, and community involvement. As she continues to make giant leaps, her legacy will forever inspire women in the gender revolution at Purdue University.

[1] Angie Klink, The Deans’ Bible: Five Purdue Women and Their Quest for Equality. (West Lafayette: Purdue University Press, 2014), 422.
[2] Angie Klink, The Deans’ Bible, 425.
[3] “Zest for Life Fills Nelson’s Days,” The Community Foundation of Greater Lafayette, http://www.cfglaf.org/index.php/donor-opportunities-2/donor-spotlight (accessed December 4, 2019).
[4] Purdue Dean Emerita Receives National Honor, Box 1, Miscellaneous speeches, correspondence, activities and awards, Betty Nelson collection, Purdue University Archives and Special Collections, Purdue University Libraries.
[5] Jane A. Hamblin. “Betty Nelson: Talented Writer of Late Night Emails.” Forum – Autumn 2016. Accessed December 4, 2019,http://pubs.royle.com/article/Foundation_Spotlight/2668109/370151/article.html.
[6] Angie Klink (@Author Angie Klink), “Dean of Students Emerita Betty M. Nelson is honored by Staff of Purdue University,” Facebook, March 12, 2015, https://www.facebook.com/AuthorAngieKlink/photos/a.365480203522108/903750269695096/?type=3&theater
[7] “Dean Betty Nelson Service Award.” Purdue University Mortar Board. Accessed December 4, 2019, http://purduemortarboard.com/service-2/.
[8] Monroe. “Campus marker to honor retired dean.” Purdue News. https://www.purdue.edu/uns/html4ever/1996/961011.Nelson.marker.html. (accessed December 4, 2019).
[9] Jane A. Hamblin. “Betty Nelson: Talented Writer of Late Night Emails.”
[10] Dave Bangert, “Bangert: Is Purdue trailblazer’s ‘underwhelming’ tribute in way of new $2M campus gateway?” Journal & Courier (Lafayette, IN), October 11, 2018. Accessed December 4, 2019. https://www.jconline.com/story/opinion/columnists/dave-bangert/2018/10/11/bangert-trailblazers-underwhelming-tribute-way-purdue/1601222002/.
[11] Ibid.
[12] Ibid.
[13] Letter to Betty Nelson from Beverly Stone, Box 18, Folder 9, Barbara Cook Papers, Purdue University Archives and Special Collections, Purdue University Libraries.
[14] Betty Nelson. Email, 2019.
[15] Matt Vader, “Connecting Across Generations in Women’s Leadership Series” Get Reconnected (West Lafayette, IN), April 2019. Accessed December 4, 2019. https://www.housing.purdue.edu/AboutUs/ReConnected/Newsletter/2019/04/index.html
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